The virtual world occupies more new spheres of person’s life. It’s not surprising that a new generation chooses internet as a means of dating. It’s dangerous to meet in the street, at night clubs and disco clubs there’s limited choice of a partner, and at work it is considered bad form to have hearty relations. Dating sites offer us a variety of modern world and unlimited possibility of choice – from thematic meetings with foreigners till the search of partner in the unique sphere of like-minded persons.
Dating sites: for bikers, participants of informal movements, lovers of virtual sex, representatives of sexual minority. Isn’t it the bound of dreams? Just imagine what wonderful letters a girl of the 18 century could write if she had internet! And would her destiny be so tragic if she used the big potential of writing her thoughts instead of hard-hearted lover? We are lucky to live in a good time – internet broke off all limits for fantasy!
But at the same time it brings responsibility to us – we shouldn’t take in mind the bad sides of virtual meetings. Who could be sure for 100 % that instead of desirable princess there’s a lusty old man on the other side of computer?
Big possibilities offer more mistakes and we can’t do anything with it. The only way to defend from virtual fears is not to forget about the real life going on out of your window! Don’t prolong your virtual meetings, come to real ones, of course observing a number of cautions. Meet, make mistakes, fall in love! And dating sites will help you find your second half…
Why do you meet?
You are not twenty yet, but your life consists of romances that change each other. And you never asked yourself why you need a constant search of new meetings? Are you looking for more new admirers just by inertia, giving up something more important?
People are not adapted to loneliness. At first we need our parents always, then friends, then partners and kids. This is common characteristics of a person as biological species. But if this necessity is turned into constant search and choosing variants, there’s a cause to think about reasons and consequences of too long search.
So, the first and basic reason to meet is not to be lonely. But if this is important for mature women, is it the same for young girls? Of course at 18 it seems life begins to come to the end that’s why you need to do so much plus damned hormones… So I even won’t try to change their mind – meet with anyone you like. It’s your life and you know what is important for you. I just will say some thoughts, you can think them over and make your own conclusions.
Don’t you mix your necessity in new meetings with a wish to look cool in your friends’ eyes? If it’s so, believe my word just little time passes and your today’s friends’ opinion won’t matter anymore.
But don’t other affairs suffer from your meetings? Your life depends on what you will achieve today. The results of good studies will remain with you forever unlike your nowadays admirers.
Would you like to get married soon? Of course it’s no so hard, but your white dress‘d better wait. By statistics, early marriages don’t live long. It’s better to get married later but forever.
Don’t you think that meetings with men is a somewhat duty of any “normal” adult girl? YOU are not obliged to anyone anything. If you lack sex or soul warmth then look for someone what will be able to give it to you. If you don’t feel such need, then do something useful.
If you already have thought everything over and decided that new meetings and constant change of men would make you happy, don’t forget about your health and personal safety – you can’t always judge a man by his appearance to say if he is mentally liable and physically healthy as pervert persons and contagious diseases are found more often than we wish. And you don’t plan your pregnancy yet, do you?
At the end I’ll add that happy marriages are made in heaven. So your can look for or not, there will come a day when your partner finds you. And it’s not for sure that you will plan meeting at that moment of your life.
What to write in the profile
You decided to find your happiness in the internet but you don’t know what to write about yourself? Your profile will show you to a nice unknown person! Luckily, you shouldn’t be Shakespeare to show your personality and charm.
Our service of international dating offer striking bridegrooms from all over the world.
So some advice to begin:
Be yourself. Please tell frankly who you are and whom you’d like to meet. Be truthful when writing about your height, weight, work and family status. This will be the foundation of relations which are based on trust and mutual interests.
As there are so many profiles in the internet, your potential friend looks for something that will catch his eye. Don’t be shy to show what makes you differ from others: maybe your unusual profession, crazy hobby or serious ambitions. Personal details showing your unique qualities make your profile more noticeable. And this is the first step to success.
Maybe you are looking for special relations or just interested in summer romantic adventure. In any case, exactness in your profile will get rid of unnecessary candidates.
It’s very easy to speak about your wishes and unique personality but profile is not a novel. Just write your best qualities at the beginning of the profile where they are noticeable and be sure that the message is rather short. Remember that it should wake up interest in the potential partner and he’d want to learn more about you.
There’s always temptation to make your image too important but nobody older than 15 seeks for super hero. Strange or selfish announcements (for example, I am the best girl in town) can bring attention but won’t give you many friends. Just concentrate on what really makes you a wonderful person.
Be ready to anything
A successful profile is just the first step to the search of a man of your dream. Remember that dating with admirers from internet is a chance to broaden your contacts and meet new people. And if you are lucky you will find your love…
Today I called Andrew…
Our meeting was long time ago, I had his picture long ago. And at last I called. I was so glad to hear deep man’s voice, real, I was afraid that there would be thin voice with a manly appearance…
I didn’t believe in such meetings before. I registered at the site because of boredom, out of spite myself, and put the picture a little bit changed by the program. Among hundreds of letters there was a letter from Andrew: he prompted me what to do make a picture look better. Then I showed him a couple of my design works. He gave me much advice: what to change, and these works were accepted by my client with pleasure. So our acquaintance turned out success in work for me. We had a common interest – design, and meeting with Andrew was more busy like... then I got used to get his letters... And he was offended when I didn’t answer in time.
We chatted much online about everything. I found out that he was a lonely artists who learned to work with computer graphics. He lived in far away Oklahoma City.
Then Andrew kept silent. For a month. Then he answered and explained that he had had an accident; he sounded brave but I felt how hard it was for him. I just asked for his phone number and address... and I called.
And tomorrow... I’ll buy tickets to Oklahoma City. All meetings online can be real. I know that for sure and I am happy.